Don't leave before you leave

To do: watch Sheryl Sandberg's TED talk.

Excerpts from her talk:

"For any of us in this room today, let's start out by admitting we're lucky. We don't live in the world our mothers lived in, our grandmothers lived in, where career choices for women were so limited." More women than men graduate from college and graduate school, and receive doctoral degrees. Yet, she went on, "women are not making it to the top. A hundred and ninety heads of state; nine are women. Of all the people in parliament in the world, thirteen per cent are women. In the corporate sector, women at the top-C-level jobs, board seats-tops out at fifteen, sixteen per cent."

To solve this problem, she proposed doing three things. First, she said, women need to "sit at the table." She said that fifty-seven per cent of men entering the workforce negotiate their salaries, but that only seven per cent of women do likewise. Second, at home, "make sure your partner is a real partner." On average, she said, women do two-thirds of the housework and three-fourths of the child care. And, finally, "don't leave before you leave." When a woman starts thinking of having children, "she doesn't raise her hand anymore. . . . She starts leaning back." In other words, if women don't get the job they want before they take a break to have children, they often don't come back.

(http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2011/07/11/110711fa_fact_auletta#ixzz1SUGYyP5z)